Happy Birthday to me

Well, I'm a year older. Whoopee. Birthdays are complex mess for me, as I stated last year (and the year before that)-- is this a male thing? Are any of you guys the same as me -- you don't really care its your birthday, you don't want it to be made a big fuss; while at the same time you want your friends to know and you just want to do what you want to do. I don't know. I still haven't figured it all out. Back to work ...